Chinese Energetic Medicine by Grace

[yari]

@grace

THANK YOU SO MUCH!!! LOVE YOUR BEAUTIFUL HEART AND WORDS.... THANK YOU FOR HAVING MY BACK

LOVE YARI

[Grace]

For KimJ

Hi Grace,

It's been a long time since I've been here but something brought me back here tonight so I'm going to assume that I'm supposed to ask for corrections...

I'm not sure if you remember all my business issues but those are still ongoing so we have now decided it must not be "meant to be" so we're going to put it up for sale. I don't feel bad about that as we've done the best we could but I just ask if you could make any corrections needed to help it sell quickly and allow us to get out of the debt we're in because of it so we can move on easily.

Now that I've allowed myself to come to the decision about the business I finally feel ready to truly focus on whatever it is I'm really meant to do, but if you don't mind I'd really like help with any corrections needed to get me 'clear'. If I have a clear direction, I have every intention of following through on it. I've always felt strongly compelled to "help empower people" in some way but I have no idea how. I ask for guidance, trying to do so in a grateful, expectant manner but I never feel like I get any answers. I know I'm probably in a state of fear and lack more often than I realize even though I don't consciously feel that way, so I would appreciate it if you could let me know if I'm weak in certain areas, etc., or just do whatever corrections are needed. I also am doing EFT now to try to help release any negative patterns, fears, etc.

That being said, other things in my life are going fabulous so I'm doing something right! I just recently fulfilled a childhood dream of riding horses regularly with leasing one. I'm super excited and thrilled about that. So, I just have to get clear on these issues that I'm for some reason hung up on - specifically finances and purpose. Nothing too major.

By the way, congratulations on all the amazing things you are doing. You are truly an inspiration. And thank you again, as always, for sharing your talents with us!

Kim

Hi Kim,

Congratulations on your childhood dream! As much as we think we are doing something wrong, the truth is we are always "Being" right! Our true nature is Perfect, and all is good, no matter what we perceive.

Selling your business muscle tests strong, and I have already been making the requested corrections. I am also very happy you don't feel sad about it. Please keep me posted.

This post of yours Kim is incredibly important not only for you but for so many viewing. The question is truly an age old one. "What is my purpose"?

I now know the answer to this question, because this past year of 2010 has given me the gift of understanding my purpose, and now I can give you the knowledge that I have recently acquired.

Your purpose Kim is the same for me as well as for all. To be happy and Free, and this can only come from within. There is nothing to do only to "BE".

In order to full-fill your purpose you must know the power to do this is in your own mind. It is in your ability to maintain a state of gratitude no matter what is showing up in your outer world. It is in your ability to be at peace in your heart knowing faithfully that all works to your benefit.

Your purpose is to raise your consciousness daily. Your thoughts are powerful energy that matters. Your thoughts are invisible but they have matter. They are just as much energy as your physical body is energy.

All energy moves, vibrates and has light. Raising consciousness is nothing more than continually adding more and more light to your thoughts and feelings. Raising consciousness is akin to increasing the vibration of matter to a high fine state. The highest finest vibration next to Love is Gratitude.

Your purpose is to do and think about that which you truly Love and are physically grateful for. Physically meaning that you FEEL the joy of that which you are grateful for and thinking about while you do mundane tasks such as laundry, driving, showering you name it.

Using your imagination you then add to this thinking and feeling the idea that you earn an excellent income while you are doing what you love. Then let go. Do not assume that your ego-mind knows best of how this will come to pass. Just know that it will most definitely come to pass and in the best most miraculous way and at the perfect time. Stay with this like super glue no matter how many months or years it takes. Stay with this, even if things are breaking down in front of you, and you feel as if you have lost hope.

Many times we think we need something but in reality it is no longer of service, and this can be anything, from material things to emotional things like people we love. We must first let go, in order to receive.

Your purpose Kim, is to go within and to recognize your immense nature. To be grateful for who you are, and to Love everything that shows up in your outer world.

[Grace]

For Will

Hi Grace,

Regarding spiritualism, lately i have had an interest in the Kunlun tradition
it requires relaxation and letting go of ideas of attainment, which are hindrances, though i constantly find myself asking when will i see results, being expectant, i believe this may be holding me back yet im having trouble just letting go.

Are you able to test whether this path is good for me?

If you are able to help me feel less frustrated/expectant regarding progress that would be great, though you may have done this already
as mentioned in the previous post.

It is funny you should mention the notes page on your facebook, because i had been reading that, especially the Master key system, it reminded me that i have a copy i must read through.

In regards to the corrections, last night as i was just going to sleep, i had a tingly sensation in the third eye area which progressed through my head, with this came thoughts and feelings about love and god.
generally i had a lot more going on in my head last night.
I'm sure i have you to thank for this, thank you.

Aside from the issues i have mentioned, lack of confidence/ self esteem is a big thing, whether it is socially, interacting with new people or the motivation to action without mentally putting myself off, any help here would be wonderful.

I do not know to what degree you can sense the issues i have,
i can only assume that each issues needs to be mentioned specifically?

Thank you once again for taking your time to help me, you are truly inspiring.

Have a great week

Hi Will,

The path of Kunlun does not test strong for you. Kunlun itself is strong and good, just not a path for you. Kunlun is simply another label we as human beings give to something that is inherently already within us.

You are already at peace. This is your true nature. The only moment where you can realize this truth is in the NOW. It is very good to have goals, and heart's desires. Just stay away from "wanting" things to be as you think they should be.

Allow the immense power within you, your true nature to bring forth your heart's desire in a way that will make you infinitely happier. This is also called "Doing without Doing".

Lack of self confidence, and self esteem are not coming up strong when I muscle test these for you. In other words, these are not issues for you. What does come up strong is "Lack of self worth", and "not valuing" yourself.

I will make more CEM corrections for these two very important issues for you. These two are also tied to more "issues" that are related. Remember other people that read this thread, and who are resonating with these same issues, will also pick up the CEM corrections. It is Universal Law, that what one does for another, they do for them self, and what one does for them self they do for all.

It helps others when you ask for CEM corrections and let us know more about yourself Will, but I do not need to have much of an explanation, because I tune into vibrations when I make CEM corrections, and although each word, letter, thought, feelings etc have their own unique vibrations, many times what someone thinks is the problem is not anything close to it.

I make CEM corrections not only for the physical body, but also for the Mental, Emotional, Psychological, Psychic, and Spiritual Bodies. We are infinite beings, and we expand into so much more within and without, but for this Dualistic world in which we live in, these 6 bodies are enough for now.

Your homework Will, in order to be able to "let go" effortlessly of "wants", and "expectations" is to catch your self wanting and expecting, and to immediately focus on gratitude. Gratitude for your "True Nature" and Gratitude for the Immense Being you are. Focus on anything else you are NOW truly grateful for.



PS Thank you Life4Living for your post!

[life4living]

A mother, especially with small children AND a teenager, like yourself, is constantly being pulled into the outer world. Their is very little opportunity for repose. We are bonded, obligated, and in love with our children and so we forget who we are, because our focus is always on them, (the outer world).

Taking care of them, guiding them and loving them is right and just, and family is our first attempt, as human beings born into this Dualistic world, at Unity. At birth we intrinsically know the truth, that we are unified, but we forget this as we constantly are bombarded by the outer world, and the belief in separation.

Unity is Truth, there is no separation, we are of ONE Mind, and ONE Energy (body) (e-motion=Love) (energy in motion) and this Energy is Light which we call LOVE.

If it is challenging to make time for yourself to meditate and know the truth, then simply remember the truth. The outer world is an illusion. Nothing to fear. Whatever shows up in your outer world, will eventually pass. Look at it, Bless it, then let it go. This goes for everyone, and everything you love. Let the outer world BE as it shows up, and only gather more knowledge about it for your own understanding of who you are now, and what you were before, to have created that moment in time.

Practicing this Mental attitude is necessary daily, or you will suffer longer than necessary with all sorts of "not so good" issues. Remember nothing is good or bad, it's only a perception. Every experience benefits you, if you'll see it as a benefit. The most practical way to do this is to stay focused on gratitude. The vibration of gratitude is very fine and very high.

Mother's have a great challenge in creating tranquility, but the energy of the feminine, the Yin, which we all have within us, men as well as women, is infinite, infinite tranquility (stillness). The energy of the masculine, the Yang, is movement, infinite movement (vibration), which we all experience as energy. The two create the Outer world and our experience with it.

Harmony, the understanding of when to take action and when to be still is an art form, that everyone must master. It is simple to do so. The outer world is Action, the inner world is the truth still, powerful, and tranquil. When you are experiencing the outer world, simply remember you are your inner world. "Be still and know that I am God". "Be in this world, but not of it". See the action of the outer world as energy, YOUR energy, and remember in the same moment that you ARE your inner world of peace and tranquility.

Those words are ...well, ... those words ARE.

Having read them I feel rehydrated and ready to roll.

to you, Grace ...

[Grace]

For Yari

Hello Grace,

Merry Christmas and to all who are reading this also. Grace Today I feel in a new space..thinking and seeing things differently.. I talk to myself and questions me if what I'm thinking has any truth. I been seeking more of the kingdom inside. I notice everything is inside of me. I am perfect but there are things I can do better. Ive let go of alot of things that were holding me back and still got more to do. I feel the need to practice being non attached to people and things for my own survival. I been allowing myself to get hurt and stress and I dont know if it was a need to have it my way or to prove love or to confirm I am valuable. My thing now is to already have feelings of complete transparency without judging. To love and to forgive. Through letting go of all regrets and hurt, will lead me the way of love and light. In love and light is where everything turn to my favor. Grace I ask for corrections for anxiety,headache pains and on my neck. This is my ego way to distract me and wanting to try prove things differently. Also directions in not to pay no mind of people's criticisms or any negativity around me. I am right now creating a new reality but it is new ground for me I hope you can assist me in seeing things clearly and keep in mind only what's true. Thank You so much for all the work you've done in me and on my children.. Hope you have a Fabulous New Year!!

Thank you Again!
Yari

Hi Yari!

It was wonderful seeing you Sebastian, and the girls. Your children are so beautiful, just like their Mother! You asked me in the email if everything in the house was fine, I had to laugh because the next day I was looking for a little piece of a toy that belonged to little Sarah (Jen's daughter), and I found a piece of a quesedilla with little bites taken out of it by the Tv. I had to laugh. I haven't found random food around the house since Sophia was that age, (Sophia born in '99)! It brought back many memories of the joys and challenges of raising children.

A mother, especially with small children AND a teenager, like yourself, is constantly being pulled into the outer world. There is very little opportunity for repose. We are bonded, obligated, and in love with our children and so we forget who we are, because our focus is always on them, (the outer world).

Taking care of them, guiding them and loving them is right and just, and family is our first attempt, as human beings born into this Dualistic world, at Unity. At birth we intrinsically know the truth, that we are unified, but we forget this as we constantly are bombarded by the outer world, and the belief in separation.

Unity is Truth, there is no separation, we are of ONE Mind, and ONE Energy (body) (e-motion=Love) (energy in motion) and this Energy is Light which we call LOVE.

If it is challenging to make time for yourself to meditate and know the truth, then simply remember the truth. The outer world is an illusion. Nothing to fear. Whatever shows up in your outer world, will eventually pass. Look at it, Bless it, then let it go. This goes for everyone, and everything you love. Let the outer world BE as it shows up, and only gather more knowledge about it for your own understanding of who you are now, and what you were before, to have created that moment in time.

Practicing this Mental attitude is necessary daily, or you will suffer longer than necessary with all sorts of "not so good" issues. Remember nothing is good or bad, it's only a perception. Every experience benefits you, if you'll see it as a benefit. The most practical way to do this is to stay focused on gratitude. The vibration of gratitude is very fine and very high.

Mother's have a great challenge in creating tranquility, but the energy of the feminine, the Yin, which we all have within us, men as well as women, is infinite, infinite tranquility (stillness). The energy of the masculine, the Yang, is movement, infinite movement (vibration), which we all experience as energy. The two create the Outer world and our experience with it.

Harmony, the understanding of when to take action and when to be still is an art form, that everyone must master. It is simple to do so. The outer world is Action, the inner world is the truth still, powerful, and tranquil. When you are experiencing the outer world, simply remember you are your inner world. "Be still and know that I am God". "Be in this world, but not of it". See the action of the outer world as energy, YOUR energy, and remember in the same moment that you ARE your inner world of peace and tranquility.

You have come a long way Yari, and I am proud to have you as my friend and in my life. As you continue to raise your consciousness, the world will still be a world of action and movement of energy, but you will be more tranquil and more at peace this is infinite as well.

[Grace]

Happy New Year!

Happy New Years Grace!

Great to hear from you - sounds like you're in some serious flow!

Thank you so much Aaron! I do enjoy the ebb and flow of Life, but you are right, I am in some serious flow.

[Aaron]

@Grace

Happy New Years Grace!

Great to hear from you - sounds like you're in some serious flow!

[Grace]

Happy New Year!

It was not my conscious intention to be silent on this forum in the months of September and October, but in November and December of 2010, I realized that I needed to be very still in mind. I was undergoing a metamorphosis of an exceptional kind for me. My current reality was being completely broken down, so that my new life could emerge.

I needed to be still in mind, so that I could fully recognize the process of true illumination in raising one's consciousness. My conscious mind, now for the first time, truly understood the peace and joy of letting go of attachments and desires.

In order to be truly at peace and happy in this Dualistic World in which we live, we must always choose the truth above anything else. We must go within, and see the truth of who we really are.


"I envelope the universe by means of my mind; and by means of the universe, there is nothing that obstructs my mind. Riches and honor, good luck and calamity are elsewhere. When you seek after such things, you may obtain them or you may not - this is not something that is guaranteed. the Greatest Happiness is within yourself. If you seek your mind wholeheartedly, you will obtain it for sure. Simply do not seek after illusion." ~ Issai Chozanshi ( quote taken from a Samurai Classic written in 1728)


For this New Year and in preparation for 2012 let go of your attachments and desires. Focus instead on doing what you love, and if you are unable in the moment to do what you love, then think about what you love while you gratefully do what needs to be done. What ever is "showing up" in your present moment (in your outer world) accept it with a grateful heart. Allow your own creations their expression, and let them be what they are in that moment, simply remember the truth. What you are thinking and feeling in the moment of Now, is what truth is, and will seek expression in your outer world at the perfect time.

Attaching yourself to any one outcome, person or thing, is a sure design for pain and suffering of all kinds. Make your plans and goals as you wish, but desire nothing. Allow your goals and plans to take shape in the outer world, observe them, experience them, and then let them go without attachment. The outer world is an illusion, because it is always changing, and will always change.

The Latin root word for Desire is "of the spirit". Meaning any desire we have will be brought forth by the vibration in which it was thought and felt with, which is the work of the sub-conscious mind-Soul, and includes the Law of Attraction. Vibration-Feeling is the Language of the Soul-Spirit-Subconscious mind. What you are vibrating at - "Being"- is what you will attract and this will be mirrored to you at some point in your outer world. If you desire an outcome, person or thing, and something even better shows up, you run the risk of not recognizing the greater result if your desire for that particular outcome, person or thing is too strong. It will end up weakening you in the long run.

Another way of explaining letting go of all Desires, is to understand the difference between "wanting", and accepting. Wanting is of the Ego mind (conscious mind) and you will always get what you ask for, in this case more "wanting." "Accepting" is recognizing that what is in front of you in your outer world is a result of your past thinking and feeling. Accept the experience as your own creation and let it go, it is merely illusion, whether it was good or not good.

Life is always in a constant state of motion. Energy is energy because it is in constant motion. Slow dense movement-vibration is Fear, and fine, fast, high vibration is Love. Yet it's all the same energy. The energy of Love when slowed down is fear. So choose with your Free will, what you wish to think and feel in every moment. Allow the light of Love and gratitude to illuminate your Being. Think and Feel high vibrational thoughts and feelings as often throughout your days as humanly possible for you. Think and Feel Love and Gratitude.

I make CEM corrections daily for this CEM thread, my Facebook CEM page, and now my new group of Karate students. I am very happy and grateful, for the love and support all of you give each other on this thread. I love reading the posts when they come to me via email. Especially when I see one helping another.

My current reality is very different from what I expected, and is also better than I could have ever imagined. I do practice what I preach, on a daily basis, and as I have said many times before, Life just keeps getting better and better. Life is truly absolutely Fabulous!

[yari]

Hello Friend!!

Hello Grace,

Merry Christmas and to all who are reading this also. Grace Today I feel in a new space..thinking and seeing things differently.. I talk to myself and questions me if what I'm thinking has any truth. I been seeking more of the kingdom inside. I notice everything is inside of me. I am perfect but there are things I can do better. Ive let go of alot of things that were holding me back and still got more to do. I feel the need to practice being non attached to people and things for my own survival. I been allowing myself to get hurt and stress and I dont know if it was a need to have it my way or to prove love or to confirm I am valuable. My thing now is to already have feelings of complete transparency without judging. To love and to forgive. Through letting go of all regrets and hurt, will lead me the way of love and light. In love and light is where everything turn to my favor. Grace I ask for corrections for anxiety,headache pains and on my neck. This is my ego way to distract me and wanting to try prove things differently. Also directions in not to pay no mind of people's criticisms or any negativity around me. I am right now creating a new reality but it is new ground for me I hope you can assist me in seeing things clearly and keep in mind only what's true. Thank You so much for all the work you've done in me and on my children.. Hope you have a Fabulous New Year!!

Thank you Again!
Yari

[ImBill]

I was just thinking about my current relationship with my wife. We've been married for 27 years. When we first started out, I realized immediately that she wasn't someone I would choose to live the rest of my life with (wed). However, she became very strongly attached right away, and though I tried to shake her every way I could think of, it just didn't work. We had gotten married entirely because I was trying to work out a custody agreement with my son's mother and my attorney rightly pointed out that it would go better if I was married. I told her up front that was the reason for me and that I didn't love her enough want to marry her. She was fine with it. Eventually, I couldn't take the pain that I was causing her nor could I ignore the commitment I made, no matter the circumstances. We worked it out and I've been happily married for many years now. I still think I could be happier with someone else, but I'm not going to choose to dwell on that. I'm choosing to enjoy what I have and be grateful for it. We still have issues that neither one of us works on very hard, but when they surface, we wrangle for a few minutes, then return to our peaceful way of getting along with each other. She constantly does things that can irritate the crap out of me, but I don't let it. I curse under my breath and move on. It's not worth losing my emotional stability over. It's not worth upsetting her over. It really doesn't matter unless I CHOOSE to make it matter to me.

Are there still termites eating away at my house? I don't know for sure, but there probably are. I do know that I ain't gonna waste my time and energy worrying about it and I know that I'll find a way to deal with it if the house ever falls down and still maintain my serenity over the long haul.

[ImBill]

Thank you for your response, Bill.

Thank you for yours!

One of the places I was getting stuck is that my rational mind was saying "that's ridiculous! of course I'll have that family life I want" but my emotional side was still very connected to it never happening. I was able to correct myself to the "agony" I mentioned earlier and therefore not identify with it. I do feel differently about the issue now. When I look into the future, not only can I not see it not happening, I am completely neutral to it-whether it happens or not. I am also neutral to the person which may or may not be my partner.

That's great! I'm very happy for you that you were able to work your way through it.

Emotions are integral to our lives. They exist to give us messages and to guide us. It is when we identify with the emotion that we are able to identify the need for a correction. CEM says to "follow the weakness" and it will lead us to the correction. My identification with "agony" for example was an indication that a correction (or several) had to be made.
To me, it's not a matter of choice. I can choose to wear a red blouse or a green one. I do not choose to be sad about a specific issue. I simply feel the emotion, acknowledge and identify with it, get to the root of it and correct the energy which lead me to identify with it in the first place. Then, when I try to identify with it again, I am unable to because the issue has been resolved and will not resurge. It sounds complicated but it really is very simple.

I understand what you are describing here. However, I still think choice is involved to some extent. Sure, we all have triggers that cause us to react emotionally. However, you made a choice to deal with the source of your reaction in the situation you describe above. You could have chosen instead to be angry, depressed, or agonized. A lot of people choose to live in a given emotional state for long periods of time, rather than get to the root of what is causing the emotion. At some point, you must have made the decision that you can't be happy without a loving, stable, relationship that brings wonderful children to you in order for it to cause you agony. At any given moment, you choose to dwell on thoughts surrounding this desire and your perceived inability to bring it to fruition or you wouldn't be brought to a state of agony. I get angry sometimes at the actions of other drivers, for example. When I am in that angry state, I can choose to keep dwelling on thoughts that keep me in an angry state, or I can let it go and think about something else. Later, I can recall that angry feeling by thinking about what happened or describing it to someone else or I can choose to look at why I am getting angry about a situation over which I have no control or I can choose to put it out of my mind until I am ready to deal with it or I can ignore it until it happens again. I could also choose to be grateful/happy that I am being given a chance to identify and fix a problem. I think the worst thing that I can do is remain in an angry state for a long period of time as I see others do quite often.

As humans we are in the habit of suppressing our emotions, however, suppression does not lead to freedom from the emotion. Just because one can't see the termites or one turns a blind eye to them (suppression) doesn't keep them from eating one's house away. Acknowledging the termites and doing something about them ensures that the integrity of one's home is intact.

Agreed. However, termites are not an emotion or emotional state. Does getting emotionally involved do anything to get rid of the termites? Does it fix any of the problems they might have caused? Action does, anger/sadness/apathy does not.

Here's another angle: lets say that you inherited a house with termites from your ancestors. Is it your fault that the house has termites? Did you do something wrong to deserve the termites? Are you choosing for this house to have termites? Of course not! Notwithstanding, the termites still have to be dealt with. Sometimes we need to correct issues that are left over from our ancestors. I would not say that I was choosing to feel certain ailments when in reality it was my ancestors who needed the corrections. Our ancestors nag us into correcting things for them. Once those things were cleared, I no longer suffered from the ailment; and now not only am I free but they are too.

To me, this is apples and oranges. I don't think your ancestors left you to deal with the situation you described that was causing you agony.



I humbly disagree, for being happy with something also indicates being tied to it. If my happiness is tied to something that means that its loss will cause me grief. Therefore, I need to be neutral to it. Neutrality in and of itself will lead me to contentment.

Okay, now this is exactly what I'm talking about when I refer to choice. I can be happy and joyful all day long if I choose to (which is my personal preference). I like fast cars that handle well. When I have one, I am happy that I have it. However, I realize that everything is always changing and that there will be times in my life when I don't have the kind of car I would prefer. I choose not to be negatively affected by the loss of my preference. Maybe that's what I should have said, downgrade your needs and desires into preferences. That way, your emotional stability isn't upset when a preference is absent from your life.

You are completely right though, everything is perfect just the way it is.

Thanks again...Oh! And extra thanks for emphasizing gratitude!!!

As I've already indicated in another thread here, I've allowed myself to be emotionally dragged over the coals by past relationships. Eventually I came to the realization that every relationship that I will ever have in my life here will come to an end at some point and every relationship will change. Some will get better and some will deteriorate. There's nothing I can do about it. I can change how I look at it and how I react when that end inevitably arrives. I can also choose to enjoy each moment I'm given where everything is as I would have it and also choose to enjoy those times when everything is not the way I would have it.

Thank you very much for giving me this opportunity to express myself and refine my thoughts around this subject. I sincerely wish you all that you desire!

[Grasshoppa Sarah]

Thank you for your response, Bill.

One of the places I was getting stuck is that my rational mind was saying "that's ridiculous! of course I'll have that family life I want" but my emotional side was still very connected to it never happening. I was able to correct myself to the "agony" I mentioned earlier and therefore not identify with it. I do feel differently about the issue now. When I look into the future, not only can I not see it not happening, I am completely neutral to it-whether it happens or not. I am also neutral to the person which may or may not be my partner.

Emotions are integral to our lives. They exist to give us messages and to guide us. It is when we identify with the emotion that we are able to identify the need for a correction. CEM says to "follow the weakness" and it will lead us to the correction. My identification with "agony" for example was an indication that a correction (or several) had to be made.
To me, it's not a matter of choice. I can choose to wear a red blouse or a green one. I do not choose to be sad about a specific issue. I simply feel the emotion, acknowledge and identify with it, get to the root of it and correct the energy which lead me to identify with it in the first place. Then, when I try to identify with it again, I am unable to because the issue has been resolved and will not resurge. It sounds complicated but it really is very simple.

As humans we are in the habit of suppressing our emotions, however, suppression does not lead to freedom from the emotion. Just because one can't see the termites or one turns a blind eye to them (suppression) doesn't keep them from eating one's house away. Acknowledging the termites and doing something about them ensures that the integrity of one's home is intact.

Here's another angle: lets say that you inherited a house with termites from your ancestors. Is it your fault that the house has termites? Did you do something wrong to deserve the termites? Are you choosing for this house to have termites? Of course not! Notwithstanding, the termites still have to be dealt with. Sometimes we need to correct issues that are left over from our ancestors. I would not say that I was choosing to feel certain ailments when in reality it was my ancestors who needed the corrections. Our ancestors nag us into correcting things for them. Once those things were cleared, I no longer suffered from the ailment; and now not only am I free but they are too.

No harm in being joyful about the prospect of receiving what you want.

I humbly disagree, for being happy with something also indicates being tied to it. If my happiness is tied to something that means that its loss will cause me grief. Therefore, I need to be neutral to it. Neutrality in and of itself will lead me to contentment.

You are completely right though, everything is perfect just the way it is.

Thanks again...Oh! And extra thanks for emphasizing gratitude!!!

[ImBill]

So what to do? I face it and I draw a blank.
I know what I want but I think I shouldn't want it.

I think the trick is to know what you want but remain unattached emotionally from the getting (at least in a negative way, like anger, frustration, sadness, that what you want hasn't arrived yet). No harm in being joyful about the prospect of receiving what you want. Be grateful that what you want is on its way, do the things you feel in your heart may help the process, and let it happen. After all, you ARE the powerful creator woman!

Oops, I forgot to address part of your post. You are never forced into identifying with a feeling or emotion. You are making a choice to do that. You can only be in emotional agony because you chose to be in it. It may help to try to get to a place where you can realize that everything is perfect just the way it is and that you can choose to be happy no matter your circumstances.

[Grasshoppa Sarah]

Romantic Relationships

I recently learned how to do CEM corrections. Sometimes I get so stuck in my mind that it helps to write in my journal so as to get all the jibber-jabber out. It's the start of the journey where I examine it, where it comes from and why it's there with the goal of finding what I call "a gold nugget"-the true issue which needs correcting. However, knowing that the subject of Romantic Relationships is one which affects many others, I decided to post on the forum so that others could receive corrections and relief as well.

It's probably one of the most puzzling subjects which has been weighing me down during the past...week...decade...eons, maybe? and I would absolutely love to be free from it and completely neutral to everything which comes up as a result.

At this time in my life, I'm placing more value and importance on my independence (spiritual, karmic, financial, you name it!). Behaviors and thoughts which I begrudgingly accepted from myself in the past have no place in my life now for I am looking to a way in which I can be a more responsible "woman in my power", as I like to term it.

Noticing that I have placed so much emphasis in the past (and currently) on finding my soul mate; being in a secure, healthy, and joyful relationship with him and having amazing children forces me to identify with the emotion of never having those things in my life which arouses downright agony.

Furthermore, I'm questioning the need for any of it at all; including physical and emotional intimacy which I particularly enjoy. And here's where more duality comes in: part of me thinks none of it matters and part of me still wants it very much.

So what to do? I face it and I draw a blank.
I know what I want but I think I shouldn't want it.

[Grasshoppa Sarah]

Greetings

Hello, everyone!
Hi, Grace!

Making my presence known. I just signed up. Let this be the first of many replies!

I'm waiting for a new(ish) computer to come into my life so I'll only be checking whenever I can.

Love and Light!