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Help, I need some serious strength
Oh man everything was going really good till today. We had to take this stupid parenting class on how to get along in divorce and custody battles. Well we were working together really great till this stupid class, and now he thinks we should do mediation
It is not because he loves the kids or anything else it is to continue to hold me hostage in this God forsaken place!
The good things was for the first time in months and months I talked with one of the Pastors from our Church! The associate pastor is also the counselor at my daughters school. I went there to pull the kids out of school to register them here were I live because I live across stateline and the deal was they only go to school there as long as he signs the papers, and he backed out!
The real reason I believe he is balking at signing the papers is because he does not like the amount of child support he will have to pay! That is when the real trouble started, but I was willing to sign off on a much smaller amount at least for now to get the papers signed!
Well in talking with the Associatiate Pastor today I told him everything that has been going on! All the lies he told, and everything else... He said he would try to talk to Keith and get him back on track for me! I told him if I have to file without his signature and go through the process then I will put into the papers that will become publicly accessible forever, and ruin his ability to get re-elected and to ever get elected to any higher office! I have am so tired of trying to be nice and getting the raw end of the deal with this jerk! He has had his chance! I only have about 10 days here till I become homeless (although they will probably extend it) so he will have to find other housing because the kids and I will probably move into the house this week! My advocate wants to file the restraining order that I had been putting off also, so I may do that also!
So am I on the right track? He has emotionally, and physically threatened me for 16 years... Is the only way to fight back to fight with force? Please send me lots of possitive energy tonight and tomorrow! Could you send the X some peaceful energy and some co-operation energy! His name is Keith. Please help me and my kids get to California in ten days!!!
Blessings Sj
Oh man everything was going really good till today. We had to take this stupid parenting class on how to get along in divorce and custody battles. Well we were working together really great till this stupid class, and now he thinks we should do mediation
It is not because he loves the kids or anything else it is to continue to hold me hostage in this God forsaken place! The good things was for the first time in months and months I talked with one of the Pastors from our Church! The associate pastor is also the counselor at my daughters school. I went there to pull the kids out of school to register them here were I live because I live across stateline and the deal was they only go to school there as long as he signs the papers, and he backed out!
The real reason I believe he is balking at signing the papers is because he does not like the amount of child support he will have to pay! That is when the real trouble started, but I was willing to sign off on a much smaller amount at least for now to get the papers signed!
Well in talking with the Associatiate Pastor today I told him everything that has been going on! All the lies he told, and everything else... He said he would try to talk to Keith and get him back on track for me! I told him if I have to file without his signature and go through the process then I will put into the papers that will become publicly accessible forever, and ruin his ability to get re-elected and to ever get elected to any higher office! I have am so tired of trying to be nice and getting the raw end of the deal with this jerk! He has had his chance! I only have about 10 days here till I become homeless (although they will probably extend it) so he will have to find other housing because the kids and I will probably move into the house this week! My advocate wants to file the restraining order that I had been putting off also, so I may do that also!
So am I on the right track? He has emotionally, and physically threatened me for 16 years... Is the only way to fight back to fight with force? Please send me lots of possitive energy tonight and tomorrow! Could you send the X some peaceful energy and some co-operation energy! His name is Keith. Please help me and my kids get to California in ten days!!!
Blessings Sj
If that is the case then he will not be home till tomorrow morning. I know that great things await me and I know I do not belong up here, so it will all work out for me. As I was sitting in one of my groups it suddenly hit me that I can contact the agency that handles child support and file with them to start collecting and it will take it out of the divorce case period! Then he won't have a choice in how much or when or how he pays! I think I will wait and see if I can work this out first peacefully, because I do not believe that this is about me and the kids going to Calif but it is about controlling me! He never said he wanted to go to court, he just wants to drag it out with court mediation before he signs! It is about control and money his two most important loves in life! 
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You are an incredible example..........and I have an incredibly strong FEELING that things are goingwork out even better than you could have possibly imagined!
Vineyard Nancy
Also sending you a virtual hug each, packed with Reiki goodness 
This is for you and please sing along!!
Keoi
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