"I am never [angry/upset/worried/etc] for the reason I think."
This is one of the first lessons in ACIM, and I got an excellent illustration of it over the last couple of days.
I learned something about someone close to me that somehow--irrationally--triggered my feelings of inferiority. I assumed that it was because the other person was comparing me to someone else and that I was not measuring up.
Then I realized that it was triggering something altogether different, and showed me the real issue that I needed to work on....and when you're finally working on the real issue, it is amazing how easily you can release things! I realized that the real issue was that the other person had told me about an act of freedom that I had never given myself permission to do. The real issue was not that I wasn't good enough. It was that I was not claiming authority over my own life, and that was what I felt like I was missing out on.
When I look back at all the other times I have created this same misinterpretation, I see that I could have saved myself a lot of trouble!
This is one of the first lessons in ACIM, and I got an excellent illustration of it over the last couple of days.
I learned something about someone close to me that somehow--irrationally--triggered my feelings of inferiority. I assumed that it was because the other person was comparing me to someone else and that I was not measuring up.
Then I realized that it was triggering something altogether different, and showed me the real issue that I needed to work on....and when you're finally working on the real issue, it is amazing how easily you can release things! I realized that the real issue was that the other person had told me about an act of freedom that I had never given myself permission to do. The real issue was not that I wasn't good enough. It was that I was not claiming authority over my own life, and that was what I felt like I was missing out on.
When I look back at all the other times I have created this same misinterpretation, I see that I could have saved myself a lot of trouble!
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