Busting Loose

[Pamela Vicik-Smith]

Thanks Terry! I have been wondering about Busting Loose and have seen several references to the process both on this forum and others. I started to watch the video but see it is over 50 minutes long. I will watch it in its entirety tonite.

[tezzaa]

Busting Loose

I've just finished "Busting Loose" and it truly is a mind-blowing and paradigm-shattering experience. I've read Matrix Energetics and Busting loose is a zillion times better. I'd recommend it to everyone.

Terry

[nadine]

I'm in the process of reading busting loose....couple more chapters to go....to be honest it really scared me...not so much the fact that I am a hologram, but the fact that everyone around me is a hologram, and there for my purpose. I am not sure how that really works....I understand you manifest what you want, but are you what the other hologram (person in your life) manifested as well? In the book he said everyone else is like a small part player in a movie....I agree that you don't know everyone or come in contact with everyone, but the way it is worded seems as though those people don't have a life at all....they don't really exist. Am I making this more difficult than it is?

To me busting loose and Loa are on the same track....because what you do with LOA in attrack what you want into your life by positive thinking etc, and bustin loose is the same....you are supposed to get rid of negative thoughts and patterns by repeating the saying he has outlined in the book. Is this not the same thing, but just taking it a step further? Isn't LOA all about manifesting what you want in your life? and from what I have read so is busting loose. Any thoughts?

nadine

[adam ant]

ok, so here is something fun to think about.

how do you know that im playing the same game as you?
or how do you know we are ALL playing the same game?

perhaps i added or subtracted rules that you guys dont have to follow, or specific obstacles for "ascendency" or "illumination" that dont apply to you.

this could explain why certain "gurus" make it, but their students do not, even thought hey follow the same advice/path as the guru.

i havnt read the book yet.

[sterlingpg]

Fantastic observations Nadine!

I'm in the process of reading busting loose....couple more chapters to go....to be honest it really scared me...not so much the fact that I am a hologram, but the fact that everyone around me is a hologram, and there for my purpose. I am not sure how that really works....I understand you manifest what you want, but are you what the other hologram (person in your life) manifested as well? In the book he said everyone else is like a small part player in a movie....I agree that you don't know everyone or come in contact with everyone, but the way it is worded seems as though those people don't have a life at all....they don't really exist. Am I making this more difficult than it is?

To me busting loose and Loa are on the same track....because what you do with LOA in attrack what you want into your life by positive thinking etc, and bustin loose is the same....you are supposed to get rid of negative thoughts and patterns by repeating the saying he has outlined in the book. Is this not the same thing, but just taking it a step further? Isn't LOA all about manifesting what you want in your life? and from what I have read so is busting loose. Any thoughts?

nadine

This would be why Dr. Bartlett (from Matrix Energetics) said this is a 'Dangerous' book...though this could mean many things, I believe his point revolved around how B.L. will challenge and alter ALL of your beliefs and everything you formerly thought was 'real'. Its freakin' incredible!!!!!! I LOVE IT!
And, its a simple as: If it doesn't resonate with you, you can simply put the book down and put it out of your mind! OR, if there seems to be something to it, TRUST in the Process, drain the power out of the self-limiting eggs and welcome a 'reunion' with your Expanded Self and no longer play by the RULES. They are an illusion and always were!

I believe there IS an interaction with all the actors in your hologram and THEY in YOURS however, the key is that no one has anything happen TO them that on some level isn't being allowed to happen by the real 'you'. In Phase two, you get into the driver's seat and use your x-ray vision to see through the hologram.

Remember, in phase two, you are becoming aware. In phase two, you are realigning yourself with a KNOWINGNESS of Who You Really Are, thus, regardless of everything else including people, existing for you to apply the Process and other Tools, that your essence is LOVE and you would always act lovingly towards everyone else. This serves THEM too, as they welcome, from THEIR perspective, your loving actions as something they are creating!

LOA has some similarities to Phase Two living, but in the end, is still a Phase One game. LOA does not seem to work for everyone as powerfully as it could. Why is this? According to the BL author (which YOU created lol), it is because LOA works when your Expanded Self wants to play that game. I believe that beings at a certain stage of evolvement are already 'in touch' with their Expanded Self and thus are at whatever point of already being in the 'driver's seat' as it relates to Phase Two, so LOA 'works' much more effectively for them. This isn't a step further in LOA, its a WHOLE NEW BALL OF WAX!

YOU ARE THE ULTIMATE CREATOR NADINE, in your hologram!

If you have ANY feelings to deal with regarding any matter in life, including the difficulty sometimes of accepting the understanding of a hologram and your point of creating everything in it, then apply the Process over and over and drain the self-limiting eggs of their power! Over and over and your hologram will automatically CHANGE!

Love, light and awareness BE yours!

tephen

[sterlingpg]

Hi Adam Ant!

ok, so here is something fun to think about.
how do you know that im playing the same game as you?
or how do you know we are ALL playing the same game?
perhaps i added or subtracted rules that you guys dont have to follow, or specific obstacles for "ascendency" or "illumination" that dont apply to you.
this could explain why certain "gurus" make it, but their students do not, even thought hey follow the same advice/path as the guru.
i havnt read the book yet.

Those are great questions!

I have simple answers for you from my perspective

After you bust loose from the Human Game, with all its subsidiary games like the Money Game, the Health Game, the Relationship Game and so forth, then YOU create whatever it is that you desire to experience in life. You are definitely on the right track with the guru idea. The BL ideas are built upon ancient philosophies of Eastern Mysticism, and current understandings of Quantum Physics all in one nice neat package that is a lot more accessible for us, rather than engaging in meditation with gurus for decades and still maybe never 'getting there'.

One further idea on the LOA comments I made in the previous post is that in BL, YOU create the things you wish to experience, which is different than 'attracting' them. Whatever it is that you desire, your Expanded Self does the 'work' of creating the pattern in the Field, adding a ton of power, and popping it into your hologram! All you do is see yourself doing the thing that you wish (this is after busting loose at some point in Phase Two) and it comes into your 'universe'!!!

The ideas in BL are unorthodox and disturbing for many as one faces the realization that perhaps there isn't as much 'free will' and 'choice' as one used to think! However, once that is accepted and the power drained out of that limiting thought, then we can move on to greater and greater creativity and a much more real form of 'choice'.


To me, your perceptions are on the right track - I can only say - Get the book if something seems to resonate for YOU!!! But beware and be prepared lol

Love and light,

tephen

[adam ant]

well Stephen it is good to meet you.

actually, i ordered both books before you posted the response above.

i started reading the ME thread, and your excitement, along with Arioch's posts are intoxicating.(i havnt even finished the second page of that thread yet)
my desire to read these books goes way beyond curiosity, because some of the descriptions match my life (or mentality) to a "T". i have always been detached from this place, and even though i get along with everyone, i never really feel connected either.

ive been down quite a few different rabbit holes, but this one is really intriguing.

[KaliLove]

Bustin' Loose big time!

Hi Everyone--

I haven't even fully finished the book yet, have a couple of chapters to go.... All I've been doing in terms of a "practice" is taking a few moments every once in awhile to really feel the hologram nature of this reality. You know how he writes about "strange occurrences" starting to happen? I've had one. A freakin miracle one!

My life is forever changed by this.

Thank you, all of you, for being here and introducing me to this! I am so blown away!

With Love and Gratitude and Awe,
Chris

[KaliLove]

on second take....

Okay, I spoke too soon. The miracle phenomenon disappeared again, probably because I invested power in the limited view even after seeing it. But it was there and I got confirmation from another person. I am getting the "play" or "game" nature of reality, that's for darn sure!

Chris

[zartgirl]

Awesome Book!

Well, I took Stephen's advice and read the book and have been applying it! Some really weird things can happen when you start doing this! Awesome things!

Well to answer some of Nadine's questions about other peoples holograms and what not... I have wondered about this also, but I am starting to understand it better now!

A little background so you can better understand how I came to this understanding. In the book the author talks about how when he got to phase 2 his life fell apart and it took him like about a year I believe going through experiences he would have prefered not to go through... This freaked me out! I thought there is NO WAY, I am so far down if I start this where will I go from here! I am already living in a shelter, going through a divorce, and having to fight for custody from my X! Then I realized that I was already there... I was in the perfect place to start my journey, my extended self had placed me there to prepare me for the journey!

Okay, so now we are to the other actors in our holograms... Well my X has been controlling me for the last 16 years, and I kept thinking what role will he take as I bust loose? How will he react or what will he do? If I created him then what about his hologram and how do I get away from playing the role he wants me to play? Hmmmmm!

Well, I think I am figuring this out now! First of all he is loosing power over me, and can not control me like he use to! ooooh! You want to talk about frustrating to a controlling man He tells me I am becoming an intimidator because I will not let him walk all over me anymore! What is weird is that I am getting to not only watch my hologram change as I walk away from that relationship, but I am also getting to watch and see what his hologram is doing! I have chosen to find my true self and move forward towards busting loose, and he is still blaming everyone else for all his failures. The other day he asked me to take care of his (my old dog) while he was out of town, and when I showed up he could not find his keys. His first reaction was to blame me! He is convinced that I hide things from him! His business is going down the tubes and he is loosing everything including his kids who don't want to have much to do with him! Yet he chooses to create all this, and all the time blame everyone else, but... His hologram is having less and less power over me, and I am gaining more and more power over me as I do the process everyday. His part in my movie is growing smaller and smaller and smaller.

So my point is we are the creators of our lives or holograms, and other people get to create their holograms or lives exactly as they choose to. The deal is as we learn who we are and how to create what we want to create in our lives we also get to choose what roles we are willing to play in other peoples holograms! Here is the deal as we get to know our true selves and we become powerful beings... I believe we will attrack others like us and scare off those who are not ready for this journey... Some relationships may be lost along the way, and others gained! All is good!
blessings Sallyjane zartgirl

[nadine]

WOW! I really appreciate everyone's responses!

Stephen, you really have a knack for explaining issues...you make it seem so clear and simply. Thank you! I admit I was a little freaked out when I started thinking that everything I have known and loved for the past 40 years is not even real. I tried to put the people in my life into that context, and was even more freaked out! What am I doing here if nothing is real??!!
I felt better after your post though, you said "you can simply put the book down and put it out of your mind" which is good to know....I can deceide if I want to more forward with this or not....I am not quite sure if I am ready for something like this....I will do "the process" just because it does make me feel better, but I can't get my mind around myself and everyone else "being a hologram". I think I am better off thinking in terms of "we all have our eternal spirit and we are on earth with a physical body", this is basically the same thing, but feels better for me.

Adam Ant, the idea of "many many different games going on" is making my head twirl...I will come back to that thought later. LOL

Kalilove it sounds like you know how to play the game! Good for you! I hope your miracle pops up again.

Zartgirl, Realizing that you could not go any further down, was probably your turning point. Isn't the saying, people have to hit rock bottom before they can get better....from everything I have read about your situation, you are definately heading up....you must be so thrilled with all the new possibilities!!

Nadine

[adam ant]

Adam Ant, the idea of "many many different games going on" is making my head twirl...I will come back to that thought later. LOL

Nadine,
isnt it a fun twirl though? i like to think that each of us REALLY are in our own universe AT ALL TIMES. even though others are around us (whether we manifest them or not) is inconsequential, because we are witnessing THEIR universe. there are probably only a few REAL souls out there, all the rest are "fill ins".

have you guys ever seen Jim Carreys "the Truman Show"? that is how i look at the universe(my universe) there was the main star-- Truman(you) and then there are the main supporting actors (not necessarily family or friends) and then there are the everyday "fill ins" that have no real role other than effect of realism.(and a sense of diversity)

i still believe in God as the Creator, but He has given each of us our own universal "playground" to do whatever we wish. after all, arent we God's children? even Jesus said "you are all gods" (little "g")

ok Nadine, now here is a REALLY fun thing to think about... try to imagine NOT existing!! WOOOO HOOOOO

and when you finish years of time on that(i have tried since 1997), try to find the end of your mind...
visually project yourself inside of your mind moving, and keep going until it stops

now you have have a sliver of an insight into my mind (.001%)

[vineyardnancy]

Hi All -
What a fascinating thread . I am intrigued totally by your posts and checked out "Busting Loose" on Amazon.
But now I see that Terry has graciously posted a link ... think I'll look at that this weekend.
Thanks to all of you for some fun new energy and ideas!
Vineyard Nancy

[adam ant]

you know, im on chapter 11 in this book, and now that i re-read my post above it is freaking me out... in a good way though. especially with my reference to the "Truman Show" and the "fill ins". the book calls them extras, but it is the same thing.


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[zartgirl]

busting loose and weight issues...

Ever since I read the book, I keep thinking about my weight and how the busting loose relates to that. I truly believe that there is a relationship between my weight which is higher than I would prefer and this whole process of busting loose!

Okay, Yes! I created it! Not just by eating to much! Actually in phase one thinking I would say I created it by eating too much sugar and white flour. But trying to put that kind of thinking on the back burner... I really created it by placing a pattern in the field and Whallaaaa! Here it is seeming real. I have started to process the discomfort or uncomfortable thoughts like when I look in the mirror, and the results have been interesting... A change is starting to take place in what I see now in the mirror! A change is also taking place in how I dress too, suddenly I am starting to take pride in how I look. This is amazing, because I have not taken pride in how I look in years. The results are that I am starting to see a beautiful woman looking back at me, the same woman people have been telling me forever is beautiful! This is awesome stuff I tell you!

Of course I get frustrated, because as with other areas of my life I want everything NOW! Hehee! Hmmmm... but starting to see how I have to be patient and just focuss on the here and NOW, and not worry about later. Worrying about later seems to put off the awesomeness of what our extended self has for us! I am also starting to see that I need to be so ever thankful for who I am and what I have created. Walla Walla may not be where I want to live, but while I am here I need to appreciate being here and now! The same is with the dress size I wear! I need to appreciate that I created so much beauty in me!

So I am thinking that as I feel feelings of discomfort with the way I look, and as I experience the cravings that have seemed to drive my life for so many years I need to apply the process to these feelings and reclaim power from them! I am also learning that my plans for my life are so short sighted and so much smaller than my E.S has planned for me, that I need to get rid of them and just trust my true self. Somewhere in there is everything I need and want (truly want).

In case you are wondering, this has been a painful process to get to this understanding of what I have read with the Busting Loose and the Power of Now! Yes I lot of head banging, and then IM's to Stephen and talks with Grace and others to get me back on track with my focuss! I am sure there will be a lot more of those chats also. We have some awesome people on this forum!

Well I just thought I would share some of what I have been working on with the busting loose, and processing things and such! It is such a powerful tool for us to use. I was talking to a friend this morning and why it is that we hold on to certain areas of discomfort and not apply the process to those areas! Think about that for a while! Why we don't want to let go! Hmmmmm... just some food for thought!

Love and Gratitude Sallyjane zartgirl