Okay here is my take.
I completely understand how much of a shock this all is
when for years people thought another person they trusted
turned out to be way out in left field. I have been watching
this for forty years and have had lots of time to sort this
all out.
The 60's taught me alot because many people used drugs
such as LSD and other psychotropics. Some of them did
quit for a long period but continued to have flash backs.
I learned that 1 episode was enough for some people to
effected for years to come. While they were young nothing
seemed to surface.
In their 30's out to 40's things will change and relapse
comes. Another interesting experiment I did was to ask
what the person did for spiritual exercise. This too
had an impact concerning spiritual actively that has
shown to cause the personality to swerve.
The main thing is that it took me years to actually
come to grips with this reality. People were walking
around who fooled me on the surface so I began
learning ways to find out quickly if a person was
truly competent.
I am able to find out sometimes within a 5 minute
conversation and I am not the only one here on this
forum who can do this. It looks like Aaron is better
at this than I am.
Generally the degree of which people go off the deep
end in conversation is so small I will overlook these
minor inconsistency but somethings are so crystal
clear it just can't be avoided.
Of course it hurts very much to find this out and hope
always takes a hold wishing I am totally wrong. I have
found that in most areas people will appear the same
as the next.
But if you find that touchy subject, all of the cards
fall loosely out of the deck in an unchecked fashion.
The world is not what it looks to be.
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